Sunday, November 25, 2012

a note found in a box sent to my father i presume either a crucifix or an image of jesus was the gift in the box





i talk
to this fellow every day

i wonder if he listens-
or even gives a  (damn- scratched outdarn!

however
i'm staying out of jail

Love

Sis




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5 comments:

  1. what a window
    into someone else's faith
    (your father's sister's?)

    i am inspired

    i love the scratched out part

    it reminds me of when i was recovering
    from a bone marrow transplant
    i went to an art therapy session
    the teacher went through a progression
    telling us
    paint with a color that represents anger to you...
    then sadness, hope, and a number of other emotions
    then she said
    now choose a color that represents
    spirituality to you
    i instinctively chose black
    and then wondered at my choice
    i suppose maybe God felt absent or distant to me
    although i did still pray
    but then as i painted
    i felt guilty for choosing black
    i didn't want God to be offended
    so i mixed some white with it
    and made it gray
    --my form of scratching out "damn" i guess

    but getting back to your aunt's poem-note
    i like the hope of the last line even better
    --however, i'm staying out of jail

    there just might be something to this
    ... maybe i should keep on
    talking to him

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  2. you're not doing anything illegal are you?
    i mean
    i don't have to worry about you do i?
    i could see it now br john going to bail sally out of jail
    front page photos embarassment everywhere you look

    the interweaving of stories is often the most complicated thing

    dontchyagno

    jh

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  3. these words are from my aunt who died last summer
    the very day i was afflicted with kidney stones

    the stars seem to be aligned in a certain order

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  4. thanks for putting this in context
    i remember you mentioning her death

    no, i'm not doing anything illegal
    i was quoting your aunt

    it's hard for me to imagine
    that she was doing anything illegal though

    i took that line
    as a figure of speech
    or as a wry sense of humor
    that she was trying to find something positive
    for which to give credit to the man on the cross

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  5. i can't imagine you testing the law
    i on the other hand....

    my aunt is/was a conundrum
    for the last five years fo her life
    she had nothing to do with any of her children

    my theory is that she was brought up to ignore completely
    the metis side of the family as was my father
    for 100 yrs ago the notion of halfbreed or mixed blood
    was even more denigrating somehow than indigenous or indian

    the metis were perplexed about reservations
    and about being ruled by a national government
    so they were largely left to fend as best they could
    my grandmother and my aunt are sort of testimonies to
    cultural embarrassment and denial


    her sense of humour was very much like my grandmother's
    and my father's
    and it is i think derived from a french canadian metis
    way of using ridiculous extremes to make a point
    i've come across it in other contexts
    in the story of louis riel
    maybe i do that some too :--//>>

    your take on it of course is correct

    i found it sort of funny that it jumped out at you
    as a line

    maybe we should keep on talking to him

    jh

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